WT: This is a post related to Elite Shade’s BellHunterverse AU “Found”. Check it out on Fanfiction.net and Archive of our own.
https://www.fanfiction.net/s/13128859/1/Found
Dawn: Well, I'd say probably the most important thing when it comes to dealing with that sort of trauma is having a strong support network of mammals who care about you. Mammals that you are comfortable and close enough to be able to open up to, and look for to comfort when...well when your memories drift back to those horrible moments. Of course, a therapist can help, but close friends and family, obviously excusing past abusers, are probably the most important thing to have on your side.
Even after I 'escaped' my abuser...this was back in my 'pre-night howler' case days, I never really had that safety net. I didn't have mammals to confide in about my doubts and fears, and what my father had done to me growing up. Sure I had...acquaintances... network contacts and those who dealt with me for political reasons. But I didn't have any confidants, any real friends. Doug pretended, of course. Told me he was a true friend, that he cared. But all he did was feed me the same sort of tripe my father did, to keep my mind molded to their way of thinking.
Perhaps, if I had even on mammal who had actually been looking out for me, one person I could rely on, maybe...maybe things wouldn't have turned out the way they had with the night howler scandal. Maybe I could have gotten good advice, or the courage to stand up toe Leodore. At the very least...I could have gotten a much needed hug....
But now...I have more support than I can even keep up with. Puppy, our lambs, the entire Hunter pack, Nick, Judy, and so many more...and I couldn't be more thankful. And with Zach and Vanna looking out for Marcus, as well as the rest of us Hunters, we will make sure he has that strong support network. Like a big blanket smothering him in warmth and love so that he knows that he's safe, and if he needs anything, we'll be there to listen.
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